FAMILY RESPONSE CHECKLIST

Use this checklist to decide whether the next step is support, a boundary, or emergency help.

SAFETY FIRST
[ ] Is anyone in immediate danger?
[ ] Is there violence, suicidal thinking, overdose risk, or another crisis?
[ ] If yes, call 911.
[ ] If the issue is emotional crisis support, call or text 988.

SUPPORT OR RESCUE?
[ ] Will this help the person take responsibility?
[ ] Will it remove a consequence that should stay in place?
[ ] Is this help tied to recovery, sober living, or another real next step?
[ ] Is the family feeling pressured to say yes too fast?

WHAT TO SAY
[ ] "I care about you, and I am not able to do that."
[ ] "I can help you find the right next step."
[ ] "We can talk when this is calm and safe."
[ ] "We will support recovery, but we will not cover consequences."

FOLLOW-UP
[ ] Decide who should be notified.
[ ] Write down the next practical step.
[ ] Review the plan later when the moment is calmer.

This worksheet is for education and family planning. It is not legal advice or medical advice.